When I was young and witnessed the coming of five more siblings, (1 girl and 4 boys), I thought there was not much big deal in being a wife aside from taking care of the house and, of course, delivering babies and taking care of them.
This did not change even when I got married and, together with my wife, started planning our family.
This ignorance, to my chagrin, is not, by any means, solely confined in me. I can hardly hear men, other than those in the medical profession, talk of other things about women, except that which they are most interested in – sex.
Having an OB-Gyne (Obstetrics and Gynecology) for a daughter enlightened me somewhat. Now I am a little bit educated in the sexual health needs of women and more considerate in this aspect (I don’t insist on sex when she is “unsafe”).
And you should, too, if you want to get the most out of your relationship. You should know that beyond being just a companion and a carrier of your sperm, your spouse, companion, mate or whatever, will be delighted if you can show a little concern and understanding of the various sexual health issues she will surely encounter, especially when years start piling up on her.
Some of these are:
Gynecological concerns:
Gynecology is a branch in medicine that deals with the diseases and disorders of the female reproductive system, i.e., uterus, vagina, ovaries, breasts, etc.
Unknown to most men, women can have any of the following gynecological disorders – endometriosis, ovarian cyst, fibroid, and vaginitis, among others. .
Or any of the more serious and lethal forms of gynecological cancers like cervical, endometrial andovarian.
Deaths from these health issues are avoidable through lifestyle changes and regular Pap smear, which a lot of women take for granted, and men ignore..
Painful intercourse:
If your partner tells you that it hurts to have sex, she may be telling the truth and not just putting you off. She could be having dyspareunia – painful vaginal penetration.
It is not a health issue by itself but could be a symptom of more serious medical condition or other phsychosocial problems.
Rather than look for someone to take you in without pain, have your partner visit a physician. Don’t ruin your long term relationship for short term gratification.